Going through a divorce is difficult for all parties involved, and often times people will say and do things during the separation process that cause them regret later in life.

It is not uncommon for former partners to refuse to speak civilly to each other after heated court hearings where each party is encouraged to air out their 'dirty laundry' about the other party. But in cases where children are involved, this is a no-win situation for everyone involved. In the eyes of many children, how their parents divorce matters more than why they divorce. 

However, you can have a successful divorce with minimal conflict by separating respectfully. With adequate support and safety, partners can express their highest long-term goals and purposes. They can let go unreasonable positions and long-held injuries. They can examine their fears and gather information. Partners can listen to one another and create solutions tailored to their particular family.  Partners can negotiate fairly, and conduct themselves well. In choosing a less adversarial approach to divorce, partners protect their children. When they complete their collaborative divorce, partners can feel they divorced with dignity.

Let us help you during this difficult time - contact Mara Shaughnessy today and work with a compassionate, experienced divorce attorney who will fight for your rights. Click here to schedule a no-obligation, free 30 minute consultation so we can discuss your specific case.